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Methods of resolving conflicts sheet
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Explain the methods of resolving conflicts in a family.

How to lay out the answer. Follow the frame, then write it in your own words.

  1. 1 · Open in two lines. A conflict is a clash of wants, values or goals between family members. It must be resolved for the family to work together.
  2. 2 · Causes, briefly.
    • Differing values, goals and standards.
    • Scarce resources.
    • Generation gap, role confusion and poor communication.
  3. 3 · Consensus. All members discuss until they fully agree. Most satisfying and lasting. Example: choosing a holiday spot together.
  4. 4 · Accommodation.
    • Compromise: each side gives up part of its wish.
    • Bargaining: one wish traded for another.
    • Coercion: a powerful member forces the decision.
  5. 5 · De facto decision. No one decides; events or delay decide by default. Least satisfying.
  6. 6 · Good practice. Family discussion, facts before arguments, taking turns, an elder as mediator.
  7. 7 · Nutrition link. A dietitian helps a family agree on one shared low-salt menu instead of quarrelling over food.
  8. 8 · Close in one line. Aim for consensus, accept fair compromise, and avoid coercion and drifting into de facto decisions.

Scoring tip: Rank the methods from best (consensus) to worst (de facto). A short table with one family example each saves time.